February 23, 2007:
Sweep first before your own door, before you sweep the doorsteps of your neighbors.
~ Swedish Proverb
It never ceases to amaze me how much people love butting into other people's business. And it seems that the majority of the gossipping, shit disturbing shit spreaders are women! How pathetic is that?
All I can imagine is a bunch of lame ass, uneducated women sitting around gossipping in a living room, clucking about how wonderful their spoiled rotten kids are while talking trash or spewing crap about other people's lives. As if that wasn't enough, they log into the internet and spew their negativity into the void of the Internet, looking for other decrepid cluckers. Wow. What a life that must be!!
Apparently someone is cheating on someone. Big fucking deal. If it's not Joel or my best friend - I could give a flying fuck. It's not my duty to police the actions of others - especially virtual people on the net. Unless you're chopping people up into small pieces, torturing small animals or molesting children - I could give a fuck. You're an adult. If you are doing something like cheating on your spouse ... oh fucking well.
I love people who get on their high horse and say the cheater is the devil. People who cheat are not happy. And maybe I'm the only one who will be realistic about this but if someone cheats, more than likely the other person is involved in one way or another. If they are a nag and a bitch? Yes, the other person will look for someone who gives them the emotional and supportive environment they need. If the relationship is loveless or has no intimacy or affection? Being needed is a fundamental for a human being, so if you're not getting it at the well you're drinking at currently, you'll look for another well.
Is cheating right? Of course not. You're betraying a trust. You're not communicating your needs. But does it make the other person immediately wrong? Fuck no. If you're a hag and do nothing but cause misery to your husband, they are going to look for someone who doesn't make them feel bad. Personally, I'd leave but that's because I don't "need" the person who makes me feel like crap. Even if there were children.
But unless you're cheating or your spouse is cheating - why get involved? I think it's because either you're the stereotypical lame ass housewife who has nothing else to dwell up and they get all riled up because there is drama. Doesn't have to be their drama ... just has to be drama. WTF is that about.
If that is what I have to look forward to when I get to be in my late 30s or early 40s, I'll take being single thank you. I guess for certain though, I'll never be the type to be bored and have to live vicariously thru someone else. I've got too much of my own life to deal with than to dip my fingers into others'.